Since I wasn't in any of the above situations you were discussing, and creed hasn't replied with his side of the story, I don't have anything useful to say and wasn't about to. Unfortunately, a part in all of your statements demands a clarification:
First of all, this is not our job. I know I'm not getting paid for moderating here, and I'm pretty sure nobody else does. Hence, this is not a job.
I know I'm 'volunteering' here to keep Ren alive as long as possible, and making sure all the players in the server have the most fun as they can. I'm also sure this is basically the goal of the rest of the moderators in the team. Not saying there is a 100% success rate in doing so, but still.
When a player thinks he is not enjoying the server as he should have, I'm always happy to hear his complains as long as it is been said in a constructive and a positive way. But if it's done in way I feel I don't get appreciated, I have no obligation what-so-ever to sit and listen to him. Mainly, because this is not my job, and he's not my boss.
Please keep that in mind when you post here if you want your opinions to be taken seriously by us.